In life you must learn to be both flexible & persistent there are some situations that you have let yourselves stay in for a long time ,it’s time you take your eyes off the rearview mirror and onto the road in front of you..and no matter what you hold so dear in the past sooner or later we’ve all got to let go of your past..
I am sure that most of what you liked as a kid is not what’s at the top of your wish list..familiarity and the fear of change can get you stuck in a bad place ,it can have you complaining how you are getting a raw deal it can have you saying the same prayer and still be at the same bad place years later..
“The fastest way to change yourself is to hang out with people who are already the way you want to be”
But when your fear of losing out supersedes the reality of Standing out when you choose to run with the crowd then your situation will never change!..see for your situation to change you must be fed up or angry enough to stop allowing that situation to exist in its current state..somethings got to give! the world only changes when you & I begin to look at the potential of change..listen unless a seed dies and is buried, the process of multiplication cannot begin..
You must allow that whole or part of your life to die ,to become that seed willingly, so that you can experience a new thing..where in your life is there a need for multiplication? Where is there a need for fresh life? where do you feel like you have stagnated where do you feel like you need change?..are you fed up ENOUGH with that situation? are you tired ENOUGH being at that place..you MUST get tired ENOUGH of just allowing things to happen? but are you? if you are then allow that thing in your life to die…it will be painful ,it may be lonely ,it may be scandalous but GOD has a way of giving grace in messed up situations..get to the point where you wrestle with God until you receive the outcome you are searching..somethings got to give “yaani” a different event is expected to happen sooner or later..